By Brianna
Douglas
In today’s society it can
seem hard to believe that masturbation was once taboo during the antebellum
periods of American history. Many ideals were thrown to keep young people
during that time from masturbating, such as inducing sexual self-harm and other
physical and mental consequences. Today however, masturbation is welcomed with
open arms and even encouraged by many individuals to practice, especially for
men. It’s crazy to see how society’s standards go from one extreme to the next,
especially with sexuality. But is it a positive
or negative thing to masturbate?
The transition of the
ideals of masturbation is quite fascinating. During the antebellum period, many
doctors and thinkers were starting to realize the innocence of children and how
masturbation should be avoided. The essay “Onania” of the biblical story of
Onan and his brother’s wife is what started the famous masturbation scare in
the first place during the 19th century. All Onan did was coitus interruptus instead of
conceiving with his brother’s wife, but because of this the Lord put him to
death. Personally that is not my idea of male masturbation, but the connotation
changes over time. Other thinkers and scientists started to make up their own
ideas on masturbation as well. Dr. Kellogg even stated that masturbation of men
and women could lead to physical and mental maladies later in life. Insanity,
cancer and even death were some of a list of supposed side effects to
masturbating [1]. Of course these are quite extreme notions, however society
during the 19th century were very impressionable and religious, and
bought the idea that masturbation could cause massive self-harm. Doctors even
tried to cure people’s sexual frustrations. Ironically they used manual stimulation
as a cure of hysteria for women (fighting fire with fire, I suppose?), which
eventually led to Dr. George Taylor’s invention of the vibrator. The vibrator
thus led to the private enjoyment of female pleasure and eventually became used
for masturbation purposes instead.
"Choking the chicken" |
Then we come to today’s
idea of masturbation. In contrast, modern day science has come to show that
masturbation is actually healthy to
the individual. Many people say that masturbation is a way to literally get in
touch with yourself and truly know your body. Men have no problem practicing
and discussing masturbation. Women, on the other hand, are quiet and slightly
shameful of masturbation. According to Planned Parenthood, 50% of men and women
are shameful of masturbation [2]. Many women, however, are starting to speak up
about also participating in this virtually taboo topic. Doctors and scientists
point out that masturbation is healthy and there are actually many health
benefits to self-pleasure, in total contradiction of what scientists such as
Kellogg used to believe. It has even been said that masturbation can decrease
the risk of getting prostate cancer for men [3]. On the other hand, some negative
views of masturbation currently are about their role in marriage. Many people,
both male and female, use pornography to masturbate. This can cause tension
within the marriage about the sexual commitment. Also, more people are focused
on individual sexual fulfillment more than mutual fulfillment within the marriage
itself, so this not only downgrades marriage but shows that if your partner
cannot fulfill your sexual needs, you should do it yourself [4].
If masturbation
has so many benefits, then why is it not encouraged by society and within marriage?
One would want their spouse to be healthy, and society should care about the
health of their people, right? Masturbation to me still seems odd, but I can
understand using it to know your own body and how to satisfy yourself, because
of you don’t know your body how can you expect someone else to come and please
you? So the question remains, is masturbation a good or a bad thing? Only with more
research to prove either side will we be able to truly know.
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1. Moore, Crystal. “Masturbation and
Reform Physiology.” Lecture, History of Sexuality in America, UNCC. Charlotte,
North Carolina. March 13, 2014.
2. Planned
Parenthood, "Female & Male Masturbation." Last modified 2014.
Accessed March 29, 2014.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/sex-101/masturbation-23901.htm.
3. Shpancer,
Ph.D., Noam . "Insight Therapy." The Masturbation Gap (blog),
September 29, 2010.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/insight-therapy/201009/the-masturbation-gap
(accessed March 26, 2014).
4. Vuoto,
Dr. Grace. The Edmund Burke Institute for American Renwal, "Our
Masturbation Society." Last modified November 30, 2010. Accessed March 29,
2014.
http://www.edmundburkeinstitute.org/OurGracefulHeritage/Ourmasturbationsociety.htm.
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