Monday, March 31, 2014

Gender Roles in Today’s Societ



Will Foster

What are gender roles? Before this class, I would have simply brushed them off as an insignificant part of society that people overreact about. However, this class has opened my eyes to a whole new view on gender roles. Not to rush my point, but these assigned “roles” are simply ignorant.
                In one of our first classes, Professor Moore drew two boxes. One for male, and one for female. We, as a class, filled the boxes with common ides of what females and males were “supposed” to do in our society. The harshness of these roles were truly brought to light with this exercise.[1]
               Our current views on gender roles have evolved from the days of old. Of all of our history as Americans, what strikes me the most is the societies that were matriarchies (Societies led by women). See, today we have this idea that men are to be “macho, strong, and tough” and nothing else. In today’s society, the thought of a woman (or women) running the society would be seen as extremely unusual (The Presidency anyone?)[2]
               It really is hard for me to wrap my head around how we can expect every guy to be muscular, tall, and emotionless? How can we expect every girl to be skinny, with curves, but only on her behind and breasts? Every single person on this planet is different in some way. There is no way that every male or female will act the exact same way as every other male or female. For as “advanced” as we are this way or thinking is archaic.
Our country is all about freedom and being able to do what you want. However, you can only It’s like when a guy says he wants to do something other than play football, he is “so gay.” Men and women in today’s society are sadly being held back by the gender roles that we have put in action. God forbid a girl want to play football, or do something other than cheerlead. She must be the “manliest person ever.” It just does not make sense.
We are expected to fit an image of masculinity or femininity that is impossible to reach. Why do we have these standards, when no real person fits either of them. I think that we need to let people be people. Why let gender roles hold people back from greatness?


[1] Moore , Crystal. "Sexuality in Colonial America." Lecture.UNC Charlotte, 2014. .
[2] Findley, Elizabeth. "Activist discusses gender roles, labels in toda'ys society." Last modified October 07, 2011. Accessed March 31, 2014. http://www.susqu.edu.

Sexualizing the Innocent

By: Natalie Elliott


We all know that in America sex is a major aspect; selling it, doing it, watching it, preventing it, and so on. When we think of these things we attribute them to adults and sometimes teenagers. What about the children? What about the children being sexually abused and the children who are put in situations, such as pageants, that make them feel they need to be more sexually appealing?

The newest fad on the rise in the prostitution and pornography business around the globe is children. People now want to either watch or be involved in having sex with minors. “In 2008, Internet Watch Foundation found 1,536 individual child abuse domains”[1] and “research indicates that 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys will be sexually victimized before adulthood”[2]. Numbers like these are only growing and it is completely appalling for anyone to think that adult content is made only with consenting adults or that children are completely excluded from sexual appetite.

When a child has gone through an incredibly traumatic event such as being sexually taken advantage of, many things can happen. The child could grow to become severely depressed or anxious or even begin to act out sexually because that is what they were taught is important. As an adult they may blame themselves for the act, they may develop issues with their body image resulting in an eating disorder, and it may be difficult for them to develop relationships[3].
 
 

Not only are children directly affected by the sexuality of America, but they are also indirectly and inconspicuously affected. Thanks to all of the magazines, commercials, and social media sites/apps, kids (mostly girls) are being bombarded with messages and images telling them that they are not good enough physically. Even innocent pageants today are teaching girls that the only way to be successful is to be beautiful and possibly sexual. Pageant girls have to wear heavy makeup, false teeth, revealing outfits, a spray tan, and must do provocative poses and dance numbers[4]. This in turn will create emotional problems for when they base their worth off of their looks and then grow up and realize their bodies have flaws.

I personally have struggled with America’s sexualizing. Every time I see things like Victoria’s Secret commercials or hip hop music videos, I can’t help but feel, only for a second, that I must be doing something wrong. I feel that the only way I can obtain relationships, happiness, or success is to have curves in all the right places and to walk and talk in a seducing manner. It shouldn’t be like this. People, especially children, should be taught that innocence is a great value and that they don’t need to fit a certain standard. They should also be better protected from sexual offenders and explicit content. However, that does not help increase sales of media or porn and that is not the way of America.



[1] Fischer, A.. N.p.. Web. 31 Mar 2014. <http://www.enough.org/inside.php?tag=statistics>.
[2] Fischer, A.. N.p.. Web. 31 Mar 2014. <http://www.enough.org/inside.php?tag=statistics>.
[3] Hall, Melissa. Web. 31 Mar 2014. <http://www.counseling.org/docs/disaster-and-trauma_sexual-abuse/long-term-effects-of-childhood-sexual-abuse.pdf?sfvrsn=2>
[4] Agadoni, L.. N.p.. Web. 31 Mar 2014. <http://everydaylife.globalpost.com/child-beauty-pageants-affect-childs-development-3088.html>.

Sex in The Music Industry

By: Tachina Hardy

When adults notice a teenager walking around with headphones on or earphones in it is assumed they’re listening to music of course, but the contents of that music may be questionable due to the lyrics of the songs. The lyrics from most songs that teens listen to now come off derogatory and has an incredulous impact on the behaviors of the listeners, particularly young teenage girls.  These behaviors portrayed in music videos can lead to a mimic of behavior which brings me to the topic of sex in the music industry and the impact it has on young female adults.

Many girls when they’re going through the adolescent stage or live in lower socio-economic classes they dream of being a princess, having this huge dream house, or living a life of luxury. These ideas however do not formulate over night; they may either derive from watching television shows or for some they come from music and their videos. The story of Karrine “Superhead” Steffans can adhere to this being true. Karrine grew up on a small Caribbean island of St. Thomas and had dreams of living a Beverly Hills lifestyle. She grew up in harsh living conditions and the moment she was able to be free she left home immediately. She moved to Los Angeles because of the glamour and fabulous life style that it appeared to be and at the age of 17 she began stripping at a strip club where she met her first rap artist boyfriend Kool G Rap. She dated him for 3 years conceived a son with him and once the relationship with him came to an end; she then came to the realization that nobody truly cares about you, they just leave you in any condition and that the city of Los Angeles does this to you. [1]

Karrine Steffans’ nickname Superhead may be self-explanatory to those who use context clues but the name stemmed from the dishonorable acts she performed in order to become successful within the music industry. When she was asked why she was referred to as Superhead her response was it derived from a sexual relationship she had with one of many boyfriends or sexual partners.[2] In reality the name Superhead originated by  Karrine giving blow jobs to well-known artists such as Jay-Z, P Diddy, Jada Kiss, etc. in order to guarantee her a role in their music videos and that she is guaranteed to be paid a certain amount of money[3]. Superhead encountered many life struggles such as sleeping in the car due to her being homeless and being broke because she was determined to live an expensive lifestyle. Superhead then learned how to use her talent to not only make money but to mooch off of the people she performed this sexual action[4]. Based upon her prior knowledge and current perception of this lifestyle, Superhead was externally influenced by the societal norms she was presented with on a daily basis to perform such acts of indecency in order to successfully be integrated into the culture in which she so desperately yearned to be a part of.

Those at NBC News have discovered youth that listens to sexual lyrics or raunchy music have been said to begin having sex sooner than those who may listen to classical music or just may prefer other music. [5] Teenage girls that are listening to songs such as “Lollipop” by Lil Wayne which insists that his groupies want to lick not only his penis but the rapper; and then in Beyoncé’s song “Drunk in Love” this implies that she’s drinking watermelon; which is basically saying she is performing oral sex on her husband Jay-Z and swallowing his sperm. Then you have the song by Mykko “Do It” says that he loves the way she does it. He enjoys her being on all fours as he is all between her legs and hitting it from all angles. [6] By these sexual acts being implied in these selected songs it has put girls under the impression that when they’re in a relationship or casually dating this is expected of them, and that these actions are deemed as acceptable.  






[1] Premium Hip Hop., "Kiss and Tail(Superhead)," Web, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eThl0kHGmZM.
[2] Ibid
[3] Barrow, Jerry, "Where Did the Name Superhead Come From?," Web, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eThl0kHGmZM.
[4] Premium Hip Hop., "Kiss and Tail(Superhead)," Web, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eThl0kHGmZM.
[5] NBC News. “Dirty song lyrics can prompt early teen sex.” Last Modified August 8, 2006  http://www.nbcnews.com/id/14227775/ns/health-sexual_health/t/dirty-song-lyrics-can-prompt-early-teen-sex/#.UzhoIvldWSF
[6] Rap Genius. “Lil Wayne Lollipop” “Mykko Do It” “Beyoncé Drunk In Love” 

The Battle for Contraception

BY: Tyler Harris

In the news, there has been much noise regarding the ongoing legal disputes in the United States Supreme Court. At the center of the ongoing legal disputes are Sebelius v. Hobby Lobby Stores and Conestoga Wood Specialties Corp. v. Sebelius, case that are challenging the Affordable Care Act’s policy on contraception.

According to the Federal Care Act, birth control is rightfully considered routine preventative care, making it available without copays and is covered by insurance. The basis of the case is that Hobby Lobby, a chain store owned by a Christian conservative, opposes contraception religiously and therefore feel the private, for-profit corporation should be able to oppose it as well. The corporation, owned by Steve Green, also considers birth control to be equivalent to abortion.[1]

Corporations should have no right to enforce religious views on their employees, excluding churches of course. The argument for the case is that corporations are people, and it is covered under free-speech rights. Although corporations are legally considered people in law, this does not mean that we can step back and let the ideologies of owners be forced on workers. [2]

Customers have the choice whether or not to shop at a corporation based on their religious views. If they do not support the views of a company, they can choose not to shop there and can go to another place. Employees, however, are much different. They cannot freely choose jobs as easily, and some have no choice but to work. It only makes sense to have basic human rights laws protecting them federally.
It is surprising for me that the fight over contraception is even occurring in 2014. The average American woman has two children, and spends over thirty years trying to prevent extra pregnancies. Currently, 62% of all women of reproductive age are currently using contraception. Almost 70% (43 million) of all women are at risk of unintended pregnancy. [3] The American lifestyle is based around contraception; not having it could indirectly lead to things such as increased birthrates and poverty, wreaking havoc on the economy and our way of life.

If the Supreme Court allows this, who is to say that a business could also exclude mental healthcare, HIV tests, vaccines, or any other area of health care that they feel is morally wrong. There is already a push to federal ban sexuality workplace discrimination. This is a huge backwards step when it comes to rights of a worker overall.

Taking a look back, birth control was mainly condoms for men before the Industrial Revolution. Abortion inducing herbs were used and inserted into a women’s vagina to kill sperm. Rubber vulcanization was invented in 1839 and eventually led to an explosion of the contraceptive industry producing condoms. When these devices were banned by the Comstock Act, dangerous and illegal alternatives for women contraceptive started to circulate, including Lysol disinfectants. When condoms were legal again in 1918, the U.S. birth rate dropped by half by 1920. [4]

The evidence in the past show that people will always opt for contraception use when available. Contraception and low birth rate is one of the factors dividing us between a first world and a third world country. Today we live in a country where half of all pregnancies are unintended. Why do we want to increase the burden on these families? Something so integral to a woman’s life should be allowed and taken under the privacy of that woman, and it is something that the corporation she works for has no business of. The justices will hear the case in the spring and a ruling can be expected this summer.

Footnotes:
[1] Benen, Steve. "ACA contraception policy has its day in court." MSNBC. Last modified March 26, 2014. http://www.msnbc.com/rachel-maddow-show/aca-contraception-policy-has-its-day-court.
[2] Conry, Jeanne A., and Nancy L. Stanwood. "Opinion: In 2014, why are we still arguing about birth control?" CNN. Last modified March 25, 2014. http://www.cnn.com/2014/03/25/opinion/conry-stanwood-contraception-hobby-lobby/.
[3] Guttmacher Institute. "Contraceptive Use in the United States." Guttmacher Institute: Home Page. Accessed March 31, 2014. http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/fb_contr_use.html.
[4] DeNoon, Daniel. "The history of birth control on MedicineNet.com." MedicineNet. Last modified January 30, 2005. http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=51170.


Sunday, March 30, 2014

Internet Pornography

By: Mekenzie Enloe

          Internet pornography is a massive industry in America and the fact that looking up the lascivious photos and videos is as easy as “1, 2, 3” means that the viewing audience is getting younger and the practice is becoming more addictive. Some may argue that there are no ramifications to pornography, but I believe that the consequences are massive. This “satisfying” habit is causing more issues than one for Americans, young and old.
            Most people believe that pornography serves as a way to relieve their sexual desires…and it may be, but what they fail to recognize is the addictive nature to pornography and the things that it does to the brain. What if I told you that drugs and pornography are on the same level? Normal people would look at me like I am crazy, but studies have proven that the same chemical the brain releases when people use drugs (dopamine) is the same chemical released when someone looks at provocative images.  Even more so than this, the tolerance built from use of drugs happens with use of pornography, leaving users wanting worse and more each time they use it.[1] A large ordeal is made when people become addicted to drugs, but if pornography is harming the brain in the same way should we not care about this just as well?
            Internet pornography is a fairly new industry with the first exchange of Internet pornography being done in the 1980s through a program known as Usenet.[2] Since this time the industry has taken off like crazy and to the astonishment of parents, about 40% of tweens and teens visit a porn site.[3] It only takes on mistake to bring young children to these immoral sites. For example, if a child typed in “Dick’s” wanting to go to the sporting goods website, they may get results that lead to questions and desires. This is one of the many reasons that Internet pornography, being so easily accessed, is a threat to society.
            Beyond these two issues, Internet pornography causes a series of other problems such as depression, apathy towards work, wasted money and a longing to control their surroundings.[4] Why is an industry making so much money given the downfalls to usage? It all comes back to the first point and the damaging aspect to the brain and ability to turn from the desire. It is time to make people known of the negative aspects to this industry because I believe that knowledge is the first step in making the right choice. 



[1] Fight the New Drug, "Porn is Like a Drug." Accessed March 30, 2014. http://www.fightthenewdrug.org/get-the-facts/
[2] Campbell-Kelly, M., & Aspray, W. (1996), Computer: A History of the Information Machine, New York: Basic Books.
[3] DeAngelis, Tori. American Psychological Association, "Web pornograph'ys effect on children." Last modified NOVEMBER 2007, Accessed March 30, 2014, http://www.apa.org/monitor/nov07/webporn.aspx.
[4] Crystal Moore, "Sexual Commerce in Contemporary America." (unpublished lecture., University of North Carolina at Charlotte, 2014).